Fling

From the verb "fling" (to throw with force or abandon), of Scandinavian origin. The romantic sense grew from the phrase "to have one’s fling" — to indulge freely in pleasure before settling down — carrying the idea of throwing oneself into something wholeheartedly but briefly.

  1. noun · /fling/

    A brief, casual romantic or sexual relationship entered into without long-term intent.

    A relationship defined by its short, unserious horizon — mutually understood to be temporary from the start.

    It was a summer fling, and both of them knew September would end it without hard feelings.

    A fling is understood by both people to be short-term and light; a situationship is defined instead by ambiguity — a relationship with unclear labels and expectations, which may drag on precisely because no one has named it.

  2. verb · /fling/

    To throw or hurl something forcefully or carelessly.

    a violent or careless throw

    She flung the letter into the fire without reading it.

    The gesture of rage-quitting often ends in exactly this — a controller flung across the room.